”Wishing Well” Copyright © 2005 Debra Eastham
Positive/Effective Parenting based on Adlerian Principles is Preventative Parenting
Henry Stein's articles on Adlerian Parenting:
PEP www.parentencouragement.org Adlerian based Parenting Classes, Workshops offered in the Washington DC region
Positive Discipline
Positive Discipline Association articles: http://www.posdis.org/ and http://posdis.org/page4.html
Do-It-Yourself Therapy by Lynn Lott, Riki Intner, Barbara Mendenhall, 1999 Career Press, Inc. New Jersey
Chores without Wars by Lynn Lott and Riki Intner, 2005 Taylor Trade Publishing
http://www.parentingtoolbox.com/ron/consult.html
Positive Parenting articles : http://missourifamilies.org/learningopps/learnparenting/index.htm
http://outreach.missouri.edu/extensioninfonet/menu.asp?mn=30000
What Makes a Family Strong? http://missourifamilies.org/features/parentingarticles/parenting25.htm
http://www.adleriancentre.com/resources/articles.html
ARTICLES, RESOURCES IN SPANISH:
Positive Discipline in the Classroom:
Connectedness
Articles on Parent Teacher Collaboration: http://www.education-world.com/a_curr/archives/parent.shtml
http://www.ext.nodak.edu/extpubs/yf/famsci/fs522w.htm
http://www.familyeducationcenter.com/Fmeetings.htm
http://www.theparentreport.com/resources/ages/teen/family_life/239.html
http://www.communitycollaboration.net/id391.htm
Encouragement meeting for couples http://www.aish.com/family/marriage/Getting_Closer.asp
Class Meetings. http://www.educationworld.com/a_curr/profdev/profdev012.shtml
Montessori approach to Education with its emphasis on social connectedness and its holistic, respectful and encouraging approach is very much parallel to Adlerian psychology.
Why Babies don’t need toys: http://www.montessorimagazine.com/magazinebody19.html
Practical steps to make homes welcoming to small children. http://www.montessorimagazine.com/magazinebody14.html
The Montessori Way: An Education For Life : http://www.montessori.org/sitefiles/excerpt_montessori_way.pdf
Montessori approach to Eldercare stresses self-reliance, respect, social connections and intergenerational relationships. Montessori principles can indeed help us achieve our potential at the beginning and towards the end of our life journey.
Some of the Montessori principles are:
• Learning occurs in a cooperative atmosphere marked by social interaction and peer teaching.
• A primary goal of Montessori education is to foster competent, responsible, adaptive citizens who are lifelong learners and problem solvers.
• Learning takes place through the senses. Students learn by manipulating material and interacting with others. These meaningful experiences are precursors to the abstract understanding of ideas.
• The individual is considered as a whole. The physical, emotional, social, aesthetic, spiritual, and cognitive
Family Pastimes games foster problem solving skills and a spirit of cooperation not competition among players. www.FamilyPastimes.com
The Jessup Ranch in Colorado offers family vacations at a working ranch www.sylvandale.com/RESOURCES, BOOKS FOR CHILDREN:
Elizabeth Crary's publications that teach children problem solving skills, understand their feelings, conflict resolution skills, etc. http://www.parentingpress.com/index.htmlDealing with feelings http://www.parentingpress.com/bk_feelings.htmlhttp://www.parentingpress.com/media/dwd-sidebar.html
Articles on feelings http://www.parentingpress.com/tip_archive.html#feelings
Positive self talk http://www.parentingpress.com/t_051001.html
Anger management http://www.parentingpress.com/t_040724.html
Anger Management webquest for kids : lots of useful tips for teens etc.
http://homepages.wmich.edu/%7Em5fargo/introduction.html
How to Take the Grrrr Out of Anger by Elizabeth Verdick, Marjorie Lisovskis
Books on Parenting (in addition to the ones listed in the 'Adlerian Resources and Links' page)
Books by Judy Ford:Wonderful Ways to Love a Teen: Even When It Seems Impossible Conari Press (April 1995)Getting over Getting Mad: Positive Ways to Manage Anger in Your Most Important Relationships Conari Press (March 24, 2001)Wonderful Ways to Love a Child Conari Press (April 1995)Wonderful Ways to Be a Family Conari Press (August 1998)Staying Connected to Your Teenager" by Michael Reira (Perseus).An Extensive list of Adlerian Resources here: http://www.saskatoonadleriansociety.org/Librarylisting.doc